Contracts of a Muslim Marriage

In the Islamic Law, marriage is an ‘aqd, a contract. The components of this contract are as follows: Proposal In Islam the process of proposal by a man to a woman for her hand in marriage, or for that matter, to her family, is encouraged. Islam considers this natural, and recommends it as an act of respectability and dignity for women. Mahr And the intending husband is asked to offer a Mahr to the bride.The...

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What is a Wali (Legal Guardian)?

What is a Wali (Legal Guardian)? In Islam, a Wali is a person who is responsible for the bride's life before she is married. As a Wali, it is also his duty to ensure that the proposed groom is a reliable and a trustworthy person who will continue to carry on his role and responsibility towards the bride after her marriage. Who...

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Ruling on Marriage

All of the scholars are in agreement that marriage is something recommended (Mustahab) and called for in Islam. Some took it to the level of obligatory (wajib) for those with the ability based on the Prophet's statement: "Whoever has the ability should marry for it is better in lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity. Whoever is not able, let him fast for it is for him a restraint." [Al-Bukhari] Without doubt, marriage...

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Marriage Process ( Must Read !!! )

Download this pdf file to your computer, open pdf file in your Adobe Reader and you can manoeuvre around the active links in the respective info maps. It even have both the English and Malay version..Try it!!! "CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD"   For those who have no PDF reader at your current computer , u can install ADOBE READER...

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A Malay's Perspective of "Engagement to Solemnisation"

Malay weddings are grand affairs where the couple is treated as royalty. Weddings are usually spread out over several days, starting with the Henna-staining ceremony, followed by the Nikah ceremony and ending with the Bersanding, which is the actual wedding day.  Engagement As soon as a man announces his wish to marry, an engagement...

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What should you do before 12 months to settle down.....

12+ Months Before Begin to envision your ceremony. Should it be long and symbolic? Short and sweet? Do you want to include all the rituals or just the highlights? Pick wedding date and time preferences. Muslims favor weddings during the month of Shawwal and avoid weddings during the sacred months of Muharram and Ramadan. Sunday is...

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Fabulously planned… Remembered always.

Welcome my dear friends or whoever that is passing by my blog, I would like to wish you guys a Happy New Year.....:) Just for your info...my multiply website is closed due  to server shutdown so im here again contructing this blog from scratch again. But i assure , this has way better infrastructure from the previous website. Feel...

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